There is a space to exist that is not too aggressively ambitious or debilitatingly lax.
If one becomes completely ambitious the result is stress, pain, severe health issues.
Too lax leaves you isolated depressed and hopeless. There is no salvation in either extreme. Be ambitious but pull back and relax. Relax but don’t avoid all responsibility or stress. Finding your in between in those two poles is the dance of life.
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