About Your Success Probability Score

From Arch SLPro-R2 Intro

You might think that all people want boundless success in their life. Who would refuse the chance for more money, power or fame? The truth is many people sabotage themselves from attaining success by being afraid to take risks, attributing previous successes to luck, or by setting goals so unrealistic they could never achieve them.

There are many reasons behind these conscious or subconscious actions. A person may find himself/herself unwilling to change a familiar lifestyle, or reluctant to take on the extra responsibilities that often come with success. In extreme cases, some may even have a fear of success.

Besides a fear of success, other factors can negatively impact a person’s likelihood for accomplishment. Many people have an extreme fear of failure, often as a result of strict achievement standards during school or at home. Individuals internalize these strict standards and often grow up with an excessive fear of making a mistake or losing other people’s approval.

People have also been known to fear the social consequences of success. Research has shown that many who outperform others will downplay their achievements so as not to make those around them feel jealous or inferior. Being more successful than others can leave a person feeling alienated or stigmatized; surpassing friends, classmates, colleagues, or even family can be a particularly harrowing experience for some.

Low self-esteem, a lack of ambition, and the belief that success is due to external sources rather than hard work, skills, and talent can also have a significant impact on an individual’s potential for success.

The purpose of learning your Success Probability Score is to assess your potential for success and identify the obstacles that could be holding you back. Although there are many people and external elements that could get in the way, ultimately, it is up to you to decide whether to climb that ladder, and how far.

Areas right now

Know what you want

Not as easy as sounds. Example of work less earn more.

Binary

Immediate

Quantifiable

Competitive. If there is no competition there is no value or struggle.

Advertise it sweatshirt

Change of life

Fear of failure

Worthiness imposter syndrome

Luck locus of control

Social connection

areas to work on

1. Do I truly deserve success?
2. How will it change my life?
Will success make my life more complicated?
Will success change my life and relationships in a way that makes me uncomfortable?
I am not sure I want the notoriety success entails
What if the responsibility of success is overbearing?
Sometimes I like to just get by and enjoy the simple things in life
3. Will I look self-centered and egostitical?
4. Fear of failure
What if I try to be successful and fail?
I can’t handle criticism or negative feedback
5. Imposter syndrome
Success is just luck, not skill
I am a fake
If I succeed I am lucky, if I fail I suck
6. Lack of confidence
I don’t have the personality, mindset, or training to succeed
I am not competitive
7. Sabotage
I always pull back when success seems close

thoughts on locus of control

inspired by arch profiles locus of control material

If you are like me you have a typical locus of control, meaning what you attribute events to whether you made them happen or something else like luck occurred.

My locus of control when a negative event happens is high internal. Meaning I blame myself and my effort. When something good happens I sift through the environmental factors and see how they made the success. It is so easy to own the blame and none of the success.

Are successful people wired to look at the world different? Do they have high internal locus for success and low internal for failure?

coaching

would you benefit from coaching?
We all know we need a coach to take us to the next level but some of us are more open to coaching than others. don’t wonder and guess. Take this free assessment and see if you would benefit from coaching.
From Arch profiles

CTAA (Coaching & Trainability Attitude Assessment)

Would you be successful?
SLPro – R2 (Success Likelihood Profile – 2nd Revision)

Do you accept blame or credit

LCAST – R2 (Locus of Control & Attribution Style Test – 2nd Revision)

Risk taking
RiskTA – R (Risk-taking Assessment – Revised)

Entrepreneurial assessments
EntAP (Entrepreneurial Aptitude Profile)
EPA (Entrepreneurial Personality Assessment)

Type of salesperson
SPPP – R4 (Salesperson Personality Profile – 4th Revision)

Vocational
VoSPA – R (Vocational Style & Personality Assessment – Revised)

Energy flow

In sales I meet many business owners. I can see and feel the ones that are successful immediately. Their energy naturally flows and connects with others.

Conversely I can see the ones that are lost, struggling to connect or flow.

What causes the energy to properly flow? Can it be learned? Is it situational?

What makes for success? I was successful as a chaplain and comfortable. I wanted challenge and money.

The gambler

In any endeavor every hand is a winner and every hand is a loser. The art is how you play it.

More than half the time I am hiding out in my car, looking busy, doing eye wash to look good. That is fine for most jobs but if you are a business owner or a sales person, someone trying to achieve a specific objective it is poison and a waste of time.

I have done it. I have been fired, laid off, chased off jobs as an executive and a front line person because I couldn’t break the habit. I didn’t want to fail, I didn’t want to be embarrassed, explain to my family why I am switching jobs again, why I had to dip into my retirement, run up the credit cards, take out a loan. All because the job was so adverse all that shit was easier than actually working.

Juxtaposition that against the times I made a sale or was in the done, connecting with people. I loved those. But getting myself into the zone, trucking my mind, making the bed, self starting etc. getting the engine started and into gear. If only I could find that mindset on a consistent basis.