Worry

This sounds insensitive…

My wife is overweight. That bothered me for many years because it reflected poorly on me as her husband. After the WIL blow up and we became platonic I separated my self worth from her physical appearance. Since moving to Arizona it has bothered me again. I met new people. I wanted to portray having a healthy attractive family to new acquaintances. This morning I worried about her health. She had gained weight prior to lock down. Now it has escalated. And my daughter has inherited similar eating and exercise habits. My daughter is athletic and attractive. But they are both living unhealthy. This weekend was fun to have them but there was so much food bought and consumed. It was the food equivalent of going on spring break. Not sure the point but a thought I have been having. It isn’t my place to say anything but I believe my wife is as broken as I was in Dana Point. Financially, mentally and health wise. I hope she can find a path she enjoys.