May, 15, 2023, Monday night, 7:11pm, hotel in Palm Desert, California,USA. Have my second interview for the promotion on Wednesday. It is with the regional Vice President who I will report to. She is the one who opened the position specifically for me, so it isn’t too stressful. Today, I walked the dog, worked out, did my meetings, then drove to Palm Desert. While drinking coffee this morning I read about a terrible accident on the freeway I travel. Made me drive extra cautiously. Now I am at the hotel winding down for the night.

May 14, 2023, Sunday evening, 6:36pm, Mother’s Day, apartment in Dana Point, California, USA. Walk and workout this morning. Grabbed coffee in monarch beach, then got some more later in Dana point at the local coffee shop. Had Mother’s Day celebration in Aliso Viejo. Took the dog for a walk late morning. It was too hot. We were both spent and tired afterwards. I took a brief nap, put together patio furniture for my daughter’s mom, then took the girls to the mall. Finally we grabbed dinner and ate at at the dining room table. We we finished I headed back to the apartment for laundry.

May 13, 2023, Saturday morning, 11:41am, apartment in Dana Point, California, USA. I learned an interesting stress relief technique yesterday. When I feel overwhelmed I can recall something the causes me grief. Like remembering Arizona, my dad, my brother, Utah, the WIL, my first dog, etc. Losses that still have a strong spiritual half-life in my soul. If I do it right and let the feelings flow through me I instantly tear up, sob, and frown. The moment lasts only a second or two but, it is enough to break the grip of anxiety that manifests constantly in my throat. The trick is to not “think” about the person, place or thing I am grieving. If I start consciously thinking it doesn’t help. In fact, it causes more consternation. Rather, I need to allow the base surface emotional moment to hit, cause the grief reaction, then wash away the ugly tension inside me. I have only used this technique for a little while, time will tell if it truly works. Hopefully, it is a solution with staying power, I am getting tired of feeling overwhelmed.

May 11, 2023, Thursday evening, 7:10pm, pacific standard time, hotel in Bakersfield, California, USA. Just work the last two days. The usual feelings of stress from dozens of little things that eventually resolve and then are replaced by a dozen more. I worked out this morning, then went to the office early. Being over two branches and having to prepare morning calls takes too much time. I snuck off for a quick nap today before afternoon meetings that lasted until 5pm. Then I came back to the hotel for dinner and bed. I did call my mom tonight and heard the latest news from Wyoming.

May 10, 2023, Wednesday morning, 6:37am, pacific standard time, hotel in Bakersfield, California, USA. This Sunday my daughter and her mom stopped by the Dana Point apartment to take me to pick up a rental car. We got to talking about the Arizona apartment. Everyone misses it, including me. The apartment was a great place to visit, a haven apart from everyday life. I miss having it available as a weekend option. The family is disappointed we can’t use it for summer vacations. My mom even expressed she will miss coming to visit. I am reminded of how sad it is to no longer have it on mornings like this. I want to drive for hours and arrive someplace familiar, safe and empowering. I ‘mourn’ that the apartment is no longer there.

May 9, 2023, Tuesday night, 6:35pm, pacific standard time, hotel in Bakersfield, California, USA. 2nd night in Bakersfield. I need to chill a little. I am all bowed up thinking I have to fix this branch right away. It was my first full day in the office. I am still running Palm Desert, setting up interviews for my promotion and running Bakersfield. It is weird doing a new job while still doing the old one. Remarkably, after eating dinner and reading a little I have calmed down. I am going to read a little more, watch some videos, then go to bed.

May 8, 2023, 7:20pm, pacific standard time, hotel in Bakersfield, California, USA. My first night in Bakersfield. Arrived at 3:30pm. Stopped by the office to introduce myself and catch up on work. Everyone I met was nice. I think it will be a good week and it should be a nice experience. The drive out here was interesting. Once I got north of Santa Clarita I was reminded of past trips on familiar roads. I hadn’t driven over the grapevine to highway 99 since I worked in Modesto ten years ago. A lot of memories came flooding back. Not many of them good. At least I have something to be thankful for. I don’t have to drive all the way to Modesto.

May 7, 2023, Sunday evening, 6:27pm, pacific standard time, apartment in Dana Point, California, USA. Went to the new superhero movie yesterday with my daughter. Afterwards, we drove to Anaheim to watch a baseball game. We didn’t get home until late so I slept in this morning. I did the Dana Point walk and a workout then took the dog for a walk around Aliso Viejo. Later, I tried to pick up a rental car for tomorrow’s trip to Bakersfield but, the office was closed. This afternoon I helped my daughter’s mom put together furniture. Now I am doing laundry.

May 6, 2023, Saturday, 6:32am, pacific standard time, hotel in Palm Desert, California, USA. I chose to stay in Palm Desert last night. The clinical manager was out of the office all week and I didn’t want to leave the volunteer coordinator alone (at least for too long) to take phone calls and handle issues by himself. I left the office at 3pm and came back to the hotel to rest. At 5pm I talked with my daughter’s mom over the phone. She filled me in on our daughter’s school dance the night before and we discussed plans for the weekend. Sounds like everyone already has something going on. That is fine, a quiet weekend alone would be nice right now. After getting off the phone I went out, grabbed dinner, then came back and watched basketball. I went to bed at my usual time but slept in an hour later than usual. That meant I got to watch the sunrise from the hotel gym, not something I normally I get to see. It was beautiful. The palm trees swayed in the wind and the mountains glowed with morning light. Now I back in the room, drinking coffee, watching the weather, and enjoying a rare morning where I don’t have to rush off to work.

May 5, 2023, 5:44am, Friday morning, hotel room in Palm Desert, California, USA. Received a call from my bosses boss yesterday. She is creating a new position in Southern California; area Director of operations. It is pretty much what I am doing now, only instead of being interim director over one (or two) branches the candidate will over see directors at five branches (and be interim director if needed.) She asked me if I wanted the job. I said, “yes.” It will be posted today on the internal job site. I am going to apply this afternoon. This is exciting. The job is a great opportunity for me, a step up in responsibility, and something I am confident I can do.